Ladies Beware of the #PregnancyTrap

Ballerific Relationships: From Hunter to Hunted… – blogged by: S0 F L Y Y As a woman… No, let me take that back… As a hard-working black woman with superior abilities and great personality, I have always been the hunter. I have always been the one looking for, reaching for, running after those things I feel I deserve. If I want a better job, I go get it. If I want more money, I find a way to earn it. I want a dude on my level, I’m scoping for him at seminars. As you can see… I’ve always thought of myself as the hunter. Little did I know… I was also being hunted. Call him love sick, a groupie, or just psycho… he went there. He took it where most men dare not… the pregnancy trap. Now… I know what you thinking, how could HE trap YOU with pregnancy? Let’s define this pregnancy trap then. Pregnancy trap : The act of forcing pregnancy on another party in hopes of a relationship or material gain. Often when we think pregnancy, we think female gold digger. Let’s not be deceived, gold appeals to both sexes. I am more affluent, charismatic, educated, and stable then him. A man knows a good thing when he sees one… when I denied him a relationship, it unsettled him. He knew that I loved kids, loved family… and am definitely pro-life, so aborting what’s mine isn’t even an option. But I told him we’d be nothing more than friends…there was no relationship to speak of between us and although I cared for him, I didn’t want anything of the sort. So when I tell you, that HE tried to infuse himself with ME, in the hopes that I’d bear his child… I became the hunted. He tried the pregnancy trap, in what society would call the reverse. So to all my females ballers… You have been warned. Ladies, have you experienced anything similar? #ballerificrelationships

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